I always tell people the key to surviving any type of separation from your soul mate or Twin Flame is to love yourself. It will turn your pain into transformation. Many of us go through life without realizing that true love starts from within. If you don’t love yourself, you will have a difficult time accepting love from others, and loving others without giving too much of yourself, which is the basis of codependency.
If you are going through a breakup, or being rejected by a soul partner, loving yourself will help you in more ways than you know. You won’t feel the pain as intensely. You’ll be more accepting of the circumstances of your situation. You will see your true worth, and you will not settle for anything less than you deserve in a relationship. And when you love yourself, you will attract love.
Think of love as pure energy. When you feel love inside, that love emanates out. The love energy you give off, sends a signal to the Universe, and the Universe responds by matching the vibration and reflecting it back to you. Suddenly, people are more friendly to you, more attracted to you, and you have a lot more romantic options than you did.
When I consult with people who are suffering because of a soul connection, my first piece of advice is “YOU NEED TO LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF.” It’s difficult but not impossible. I created this Love & Beauty spell for myself when I was dealing with the rejection from my twin and the fact that he was dating another woman. Being rejected by the love of my life almost killed me. I cast this spell with full trust that God/The Universe would help me love myself.
It was the most powerful spell I had ever created. Within one moon cycle, I loved myself, and I realized that the love I had for myself was going to change my whole world. Everything was going to get better, and it did. It helped me come out of the darkness into the light during my spiritual journey.
This spell is best cast during the night of a new moon.
The Beautiful Queen Spell
I call upon God, my Angels, Archangel Michael, Archangel Chamuel, Archangel Raphael, my Spirit Guides of Love and Light, to hear my prayer.
I love myself.
I attract loving people into my life.
I am beautiful.
I am smart.
I am independent.
I am a Queen.
My mind is strong. My body is strong. My soul is strong.
I am emotionally balanced. I am mentally balanced.
I love myself.
My heart is open. I am filled with love.
I ask this from the Universe as long as Free Will allows. So Mote It Be.
Cast this on the night of a new moon. Envision yourself in a circle of light, call in any Angels, Spirit Guides of Love and Light, and even your ancestors to hear your prayer. I like to call in Archangel Michael and ask him to protect my circle from any energy other than Love and Light.
Read your prayer of intention. Light the candles. Then give Spirit gratitude and ask for them to leave your circle.
Light one red and one pink candle. Let them burn all the way down. If you need to leave the house, snuff the candles out (do not blow them out) and then relight them. You can also burn them in your sink or a tub to be safe.
Feel free to add flowers, tarot cards, crystals (rose quartz especially) to the ritual part. Personalize your prayer of intention and the ritual any way you like! This is your spell, so make it yours.
Create a romantic atmosphere, because this spell is about LOVE (for yourself!)