The Beautiful Queen Spell

I always tell people the key to surviving any type of separation from your soul mate or Twin Flame is to love yourself.  It will turn your pain into transformation. Many of us go through life without realizing that true love starts from within. If you don’t love yourself, you will have a difficult time accepting love from others, and loving others without giving too much of yourself, which is the basis of codependency.

If you are going through a breakup, or being rejected by a soul partner, loving yourself will help you in more ways than you know. You won’t feel the pain as intensely. You’ll be more accepting of the circumstances of your situation. You will see your true worth, and you will not settle for anything less than you deserve in a relationship. And when you love yourself, you will attract love.

Think of love as pure energy. When you feel love inside, that love emanates out. The love energy you give off, sends a signal to the Universe, and the Universe responds by matching the vibration and reflecting it back to you. Suddenly, people are more friendly to you, more attracted to you, and you have a lot more romantic options than you did.

When I consult with people who are suffering because of a soul connection, my first piece of advice is “YOU NEED TO LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF.” It’s difficult but not impossible. I created this Love & Beauty spell for myself when I was dealing with the rejection from my twin and the fact that he was dating another woman. Being rejected by the love of my life almost killed me. I cast this spell with full trust that God/The Universe would help me love myself.

It was the most powerful spell I had ever created. Within one moon cycle, I loved myself, and I realized that the love I had for myself was going to change my whole world. Everything was going to get better, and it did. It helped me come out of the darkness into the light during my spiritual journey.

This spell is best cast during the night of a new moon.

The Beautiful Queen Spell

I call upon God, my Angels, Archangel Michael, Archangel Chamuel, Archangel Raphael, my Spirit Guides of Love and Light, to hear my prayer.

I love myself.

I attract loving people into my life.

I am beautiful.

I am smart.

I am independent.

I am a Queen.

My mind is strong. My body is strong. My soul is strong.

I am emotionally balanced. I am mentally balanced.

I love myself.

My heart is open. I am filled with love.

I ask this from the Universe as long as Free Will allows. So Mote It Be.

Cast this on the night of a new moon. Envision yourself in a circle of light, call in any Angels, Spirit Guides of Love and Light, and even your ancestors to hear your prayer. I like to call in Archangel Michael and ask him to protect my circle from any energy other than Love and Light.

Read your prayer of intention. Light the candles. Then give Spirit gratitude and ask for them to leave your circle.

Light one red and one pink candle. Let them burn all the way down. If you need to leave the house, snuff the candles out (do not blow them out) and then relight them. You can also burn them in your sink or a tub to be safe.

Feel free to add flowers, tarot cards, crystals (rose quartz especially) to the ritual part. Personalize your prayer of intention and the ritual any way you like! This is your spell, so make it yours.

Create a romantic atmosphere, because this spell is about LOVE (for yourself!)

 

 

Mastering Your Own Destiny

One expression that I cannot stand is: “It was meant to be.” And I’ll tell you why I hate that stupid cliché, because it takes away our power; it takes away our free will and our choices. In relationships, we need to stop thinking in terms of “meant to be.” We need to start believing in the strength of our own decisions to create the lives and relationships we desire.

I have met two men in my life who I would’ve sworn on my soul that we were “meant to be”, but we were not. What does that tell you about the feeling that it’s “meant to be?”

Now if we break up with somebody who we truly believe we are meant to be with, how devastated do you think we’d be that we’re no longer together? We think: “If we are meant to be together, then why is he/she gone? What did I do wrong?” As we cry our tears and pour out our hearts to our friends, we tell them: “It was meant to be! We are supposed to be together!” To which they nod their heads and listen to us weep, being the good friends they are.

“Meant to be” holds us back from truly living and in times of separation from people we love, it chains us to our past. I have known many people (and have been one) who are dealing with the loss of a relationship, and they can’t move on, because they believe in “meant to be.” We are told that if something is meant to be, then it will happen, but does that really mean? And in cases where you miss your lost love/Twin Flame/soul mate, having faith that the universe is conspiring to bring you two back together because it’s “meant to be” only creates severe disappointment and feelings of loss.

Getting hung up on what you think the universe is and should be doing for you is the worst thing you can focus on. I wasted two years of my life waiting for something to happen. At one point, I was so angry that nothing was happening, I remember thinking “Fuck the universe.”

I felt betrayed by the universe at times. But it was because I didn’t realize that the power to change my life had been within me all along. It was as if I was stuck in molasses and my life was not moving. Nothing new was coming into it. But what I didn’t realize is that we create the new. And we can only manifest new when we let go of the old.

My mind was trapped in a glass case that held all the memories I had of my Twin Flame, because I couldn’t stop holding on to “meant to be.” “Meant to be” was supposed to bring us back together. I thought: “If something is “meant to be”, then it’s supposed to happen, right? All those soulmate/Twin Flame quotes told me as such. He’s got to come back then. How could he not? We’re Twin Flames. We are connected to each other’s souls. All I see are signs pointing me to him! Then why aren’t we together?”

Once I broke through the illusion of “meant to be”, I understood that free will and destiny create a dance together. Some things are meant to happen: Yes, absolutely. We are meant to meet certain people in our lives: Yes! But what we do with those meetings are our choices as human beings with free will. The people we meet have those choices as well. In a relationship, two people’s choices create the outcome.

“Meant to be” means absolute shit. We were meant to meet for a variety of soul reasons, but that’s where it ends. The future is something that you and the other person form together. And if it doesn’t work out, the universe is more than happy to send us another romantic partner your way, if we are open to love and ready for it. We have many soul mates. We just have to know how to manifest them and believe that we can. And when we are ready, they will appear. Once we stop dwelling on the ideal of “meant to be”, we may find love in the most unexpected places.

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Manifesting with the Gemini Full Moon, December 17, 2013

This December Full Moon aka “The Cold Moon” will appear on Tuesday, December 17, in the sign of Gemini. Since Gemini is the sign of duality or the “twins”, we can manifest two desires at once. The best thing we can do during this Full Moon is meditate, center ourselves, and write down two items we wish to manifest in the new year.

You need to be clear when setting the intentions. If you want a relationship in 2014, write down “I am in a loving, romantic relationship.” If you wish for more money in the new year, you will write “I have an abundance of money.” Write out the intention as if you already have it.

I enjoy casting spells and setting intentions during full moons, because the energy is especially powerful. Intuitively, I feel as if this particular Full Moon has a lot of oomph and yummy energy. If you wish to boost the energy of your manifesting, I would suggest buying two candles: one for each goal you wish to manifest.

I personally love candles and think they can be quite effective for sending out the energy of what we want into the Universe. The Universe is listening. We just have to know how to tell it what we desire: This is the key to manifesting wonderful things.

Choose two candles to represent the two intentions. For example, if I want abundance in 2014, I’ll burn a green candle. If I want more passion and energy in my life, I’ll burn a red candle. If I’m seeking love, I’ll burn a pink candle. Here is an entire list of candle colors and their meanings. They can be any size candle. For this, two votives would work fine.
 
Read off your two intentions out loud and light the candles. Burn them all the way down. If you have to go to sleep or leave the house, you can either put them in the sink to burn or “snuff” out the candles, do not blow out, and relight them when you’re back.
Take the slip of paper where you wrote the intentions and place it underneath your mattress. Good luck and happy manifesting for the new year!

What do you wish to manifest in your life for 2014?
 

Summer Solstice

The Summer Solstice signals the halfway point in the year where we need to plant the seeds of our future. It’s about fertilizing the soil and watching our lives blossom before us. It’s a beautiful time of opportunity and letting our futures unfold before us like a wondrous fairy tale.

It’s the beginning of summer, a time to enjoy ourselves and experience life to the fullest. We need to welcome more joy and abundance into our daily lives, and enjoy each moment as it comes to us. We get so bogged down in trying to rehash the past and control the future that we don’t experience the NOW as it should be – as it’s meant to be.

We need to focus on the thoughts, ideas, and interests that make us happy and less on the negative thinking that only makes us feel bad and serves no purpose. Think of the summer as a mystical golden goddess. What is it that you want to ask the goddess for? What would make your life better? What would bring you more happiness?